So you want to learn how to talk dirty to a guy but don’t know how? Both men and women would like to spice up their love life. What better way to do it than talking dirty. If you want to sweep your man off his feet and have him drooling at the thought of you then listen carefully. There are a few key factors to go about doing this.

Timing is everything. You have to say the right choice of words at the right time. Remember this is to arouse him and please your lover not turn it into an argument or something else that would be negative. For instance if your man comes home from work and had a bad day. He’ll be stressed and certainly won’t be in the mood for any kind of dirty talk.

Give him some alone time to just relax. Now a good way to get him in the mood when he’s stressed is just talk to him and comfort him. Lift up his spirits. He will appreciate this and mostly wouldn’t mind a little dirty talk afterward.

Learn what your partner likes. You can’t expect to please your mate by just saying random phrases. You could possibly end up saying something that could offend him and this would surely ruin the mood. You want to get him in the mood and increase it not spoil it.

There are many ways to find out what your partner enjoys. Speculate on different things that he likes and dislikes. You can even just flat out ask him and both of you can share each other’s thoughts. That way you won’t just find out how to turn him on but also will be able to tell him how to turn you on without him feeling embarrassed.